20 0 obj The church loves everyone and has a desire for everyone to surrender their /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] Provide a short message, such as reading Psalms 23 and sharing additional words of comfort. 1 In One Word. /Type /Pages Ask questions that help them recall the good memories. This form was developed by Pastoral Care Inc. This is why many churches have chosen /Contents 76 0 R Funeral Planning Checklist Excellent. 26 0 obj /Rotate 0 Yet they achieve those things in very different ways. 0000002413 00000 n endobj 0000035166 00000 n This booklet will outline for you how to prepare for meeting the pastor, frequently asked questions, as well as steps you may want to think about after the funeral - practically, emotionally, and spiritually. Sometimes you may be the one to open the door of the hearse. endobj /Type /Page Funeral Planning Checklist Select Type of Disposition Burial Choose burial site (e.g. Speaker such as a clergy member or funeral celebrant, Pallbearers, eulogist, assistants, and attendees, Monument, memorial, or virtual memorials, such as a grave marker, headstone, video tribute, or online memorial website, Memorial contributions to charity organizations, Burial in a private cemetery, veterans cemetery, or on private property, Scattering of cremated body at sea, in a park, on private property, or in a memorial garden (with permission of local municipality), Keepsake jewelry, such as cremation jewelry. Keep a copy of your funeral plans on file with a funeral provider and notify at least two other emergency contacts of where your funeral will be held and where your final wishes are recorded. This link will open in a new window. Eulogist (s), who will write and deliver a eulogy about the deceased. 21 0 obj << this stance. T#t{eMT]F /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] << xAz{vfv9HPLJUPLMvU`SE q8r%:bu9jV?df{fgzwy=W}~TW" F?ztj~lp( qRo| @O/7z,> 4\JeFOz =1mojNO [zhxtO' O&i sz Z+iZX}" hP( WC Accommodating the public when they ask to use your church is not only a service but an outreach to the community. /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] members and their relatives or friends form a special bond with your church. When you sit down with the family, begin the conversation with this question: "If you could describe your dad/mom/sister/brother in one word, what would it be?". >> A pastor's role is more than just speaking words of comfort, it is listening and being there when family members need you the most. ",#(7),01444'9=82. 6 0 obj /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] endobj Verbally share your final wishes (but do not rely solely on verbal instructions, as loved ones may forget or disagree on what you said you wanted!). /Contents 52 0 R << 7 0 obj /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Type /Page wExHv=)\K>o/M($ @y[ No one wants to undergo a tiring process. Download the funeral checklist yourself to learn more about the stages of planning that go along with funerals and memorials. /BleedBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] 0000002274 00000 n A good funeral requires the sensitivity and comfort only a minister can provide. endobj /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Version /1.4 endobj 1 0 obj Check back with family members the days before the funeral as well as after the funeral. Spend time with the family. 03. 6 0 obj frustration, what was meant to be a loving service can result in hurt feelings, damaged relationships and a poor image for your church. to the family. Select the individuals you would like to read them. Verbally share your final wishes (but do not rely solely on verbal instructions, as loved ones may forget or disagree on what you said you wanted!). By being involved early in situations of death or impending death, the pastor can help with the necessary decisions regarding service arrangements, as well as caring for the spiritual needs of those involved. _ endobj /Annots [] %PDF-1.5 /Rotate 0 >> 0000004232 00000 n This service is found in UMH. /Parent 2 0 R forms. In the process, take note of stories and defining marks in their lives. << /Tabs /S /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] 1. /Parent 2 0 R 4. trailer << 8 0 obj Copyright 2022 Pastoral Care Inc. All Rights Reserved. /Count 24 0000068055 00000 n It's often seen as easier not to have a memorial service or funeral, and it's certainly seen as a less expensive alternative. /Type /Page 8 % . A A L h h h =. If more than one minister conducts the service with you, allow them to give scripture, recite a <> endobj granted by Pastoral Care Inc. One way to personalize your message is to divide your message into topics: He/She wasA good mother/fatherA good providerA good ChristianA good cook, etc. Let's talk about your loved one's life; share some stories with us. /Resources 53 0 R Download. <> /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] If you are not familiar with the person you are conducting the service for, get to know them. 0000093565 00000 n The fees for the advice of an attorney should not be compared to the fees of do-it-yourself online Find someone to help . For information about opting out, click here. /Tabs /S In some cases you will want to use both of these types of scriptures. /Annots [] endobj << A Funeral Planning Checklist helps you plan a funeral. %PDF-1.7 '03~I=Rv@ ma8 endobj Pre-funeral checklist. Before the actual service, have a special prayer with the family. that person as much help as he or she wants or needs. Choose the type of disposition you'd like: Burial Cremation Green burial (eco-friendly) sudden" for many family members. /Resources 37 0 R Before viewing, the following need to be made ready: Mic setup (sound check) Stage setup Before the memorial service, Make sure sound system is on. Usage of any form or other service on our website is /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] This Funeral Planning Worksheet will lead you through a variety of decisions. >> /Contents 56 0 R Accommodating the public when they ask to use your church is not only a service but an outreach to the community. Allow them to know you and tell them that the church /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] FUNERAL CHECK LIST: Service planner c/o Worship Director and Officiating Pastor/Elder (to be written up after consultation with family of the deceased). /StructParents 4 endobj lead you through a variety of decisions. /Rotate 0 /BleedBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] 9 0 obj /StructParents 3 Determine what time family will arrive for visitation and services, ensure coordinator is onsite at those times Notify custodian and impacted ministry leaders of funeral arrangements Notify Alsip Police dept of planned funeral--708-385-6902 Easel/s or table provision for photo collage of deceased (if requested) Boxes of tissue Musicians: Soloist/s; pianist; worship team (if requested) Ushers and parking attendants Canned music during the viewing (if requested) AV technician (if canned music is requested, must be present to play music; must be present during the memorial service). endobj 7 0 obj What Should I Know When Considering Cremation? Question #4: Describe the last funeral service you've attended. %PDF-1.7 0000035816 00000 n >> /Length 9787 Cars - for relatives and close friends Casket type Due to recent rulings on alternative lifestyles and marriages, many churches have chosen to not lease or allow outside parties to use their facilities or equipment. 2 0 obj Look at all the elements that go into a service and see what the family wants to include and not include. /Annots [] 0000003759 00000 n /StructParents 3 /Parent 2 0 R << /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Title (Planning a Loving Funeral) /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] Step 2: Look for a Professional Funeral Form Template. The funeral director. Our expert guidance can make your life a little easier during this time. /BleedBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Resources 29 0 R Create a free website to honor a loved one who has passed away. 0000001677 00000 n 2109 Luann Lane- Madison, Wisconsin 53713 Phone: 608-661-3678 1650 East Huebee Parkway-Beloit, Wisconsin 53511 Phone: 608-368-8143 Vital Statistics Record . 0000031801 00000 n Honor your loved one with a free online memorial. /Lang (en) However, if the publics use of the church building results in confusion, miscommunication or /Filter /FlateDecode /Type /Page Well discuss what should be included in an obituary, what elements would mean the most in a funeral or memorial service and more. Get Help Choose a funeral home Choose an officiant for the service Have a support person Ask family and friends to help with other tasks Consider funeral costs and accepting donations 2. /Tabs /S endobj /MediaBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] <>>> >> ceremony. /Tabs /S Give them your card and ask them to call if they need you. /Type /Page endobj 0000007565 00000 n ?. /Parent 2 0 R /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Annots [] /Tabs /S /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /Contents 36 0 R /Font 83 0 R headstone) Cremation Pick an urn or container for ashes Decide what to do with ashes (e.g. /StructParents 2 N,K(8ep$#89n,@Ack,4vn9v;0v@JT#_0+y37|nshMkrr) AX}2q /Resources 59 0 R being there when family members need you the most. More on planning a funeral in this article from Regions. They are searching for comfort. 0000121523 00000 n << /Tabs /S Learn what to expect and get your free Guide to Understanding Funeral and Cremation Costs today. poem, or perhaps sing a hymn. /TrimBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] /CropBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] What You Need to Know about Anatomical Donation, What You Need to Know About Veterans Burial Benefits. /Rotate 0 0000002134 00000 n /BleedBox [0.0 7.920001 396.0 619.92] PDF. x When using the form for a funeral that will take place right away, just complete the /Annots [] endobj endobj The church is never trying to discriminate anyone. <> 4 0 obj This link will open in a new window. /Resources 61 0 R 0000004257 00000 n Plan the type of funeral service you will be having. endobj 0000009961 00000 n So don't pay for a funeral without checking with more than one funeral home. 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